Profiling
The thing that is really great about the Arno Profile System is that the counselor is provided with an instant starting place! Most counselors do not have a clue as to where to start!
The counselee answers fifty-four (54) questions which takes about eight (8) minutes. The responses are entered into the computer and the counselor receives an extensive report that provides more information than the counselor could normally pry out of the counselee in ten (10) sessions!
Want to know what your counselees’ primary problems are and how to help them find resolutions? Become certified to administer the Arno Profile System–it is anointed by the Lord and you will love it!
Certification is provided to those who sucussfully complete one training course titled Creation Therapy.
Procrusteanism
Procrusteansim! This word is derived from a Greek myth about a man who would invite people to his home to visit. They would sleep in the procrustean bed, but there was one condition! They had to fit the bed perfectly! If they were too long, he cut off their legs! If they were too short, he stretched them! We have molds for our loved too! We nag them and complain about them because they do not fit our mold! We woulkd be much hapier if we undstood that we are all fearfully and wonderfully made (created) and that each one of us is unique! We need to love our spouse, children, and our family members just as God created them to be and to stop trying to change them into what we want them to be! This is all explained in our book, The Missing Link! If you want a better and happier life, you should read it.
Enlightenment!
The Word says: ”My people perish for lack of knowledge“ (paraphrased). I believe that is also why marriages and, in fact, all relationships, perish! We just do not understand ourselves (why we do the things we do). And, we certainly do not understand others (why they do the things they do)!
The Lord gave us the answers (enlightenment, if you will) and we share it in our book: The Missing Link. And, if you want, you can even take it as a course and receive a certificate–that version is titled: Created In God’s Image. Check it out! It will change your life!
Opposites attract!
Opposites attract! That is very true! People oriented people (Sanguines) are fun loving, happy, enthusiastic, and very exciting. However, they are also somewhat un-organized. Task oriented people (Melancholies) are usually organized and serious about life. Each one is attracted to the differences in the other. The Melancholy “wants” to be happy like the Sanguine and, for a season, enjoys being around them. Whereas, the Sanguine is attracted to the fact that the Melancholy is so “together!”
This is all short lived. Once they get married (commit), they frustrate one another terribly! One dislikes the fact that the other is always on the go and constantly failing to complete tasks and keep commitments (irresponsible). The other is totally exasperated by his/her spouses boring and tasking life–never having any fun!
We teach people how to resolve these kinds of problems.
Male vs female behavior
Women are from Venus and men are from Mars. What a lie! It has nothing to do with male or female — It is all about in-born temperament, i.e., spiritual genetics. Some men are very warm and fussy; some women are task oriented and cold. How we behave is all explained in our book, The Missing Link.
